Thanks everyone I have so much stuff to get sorted its unreal. I never know quite know what life is going to throw at me next.
My website may eventually disappear unless I can find out how he paid for the VPS. I have no clue what to do when it comes to managing a VPS TechMonkey dealt with that side of things he was clever when it came to Linux. I hardly know anything about Linux commands etc...
Sorry Forrest Life ain't like that box of chocolates NOT by a long Chalk!
I'm coping but only just I sort the death cert and funeral out tomorrow.